Why Saying It Doesn’t Matter Frees Your Future

We share a direct practice for ending rumination and choosing forward motion, then bring through a detailed message from spirit that affirms love, presence and the courage to live more fully. Grief, memory and abundance meet practical tools for attention and change.

• using “it doesn’t matter” as a pattern interrupt for past-focused thinking
• separating love and memory from the paralysis of loss
• shifting attention from lack to abundance
• moving through hard moments by choosing flow
• spirit message with specific validations and names
• encouragement to use more of your gifts and trust intuition
• seasonal reflections and warm wishes
• invitation to join our Facebook community

“Don’t forget, Soul Take Soul on Facebook is the group that is going to be manifesting everything in the future”

Transcript

The Pattern Of Reliving The Past

It Doesn’t Matter As A Practice

Grief, Memory And Moving Forward

Choosing Abundance Over Lack

Flow Through The Hard Moments

A Spirit Visitor Steps In

Validations: Health, Places And Personality

Messages, Names And Life Lessons

Everyday Signs And Gentle Warnings

SPEAKER_00 0:45

Hey, hey, hey everyone. Welcome to Zoetic Chat with me, John Mayfield. I'm gonna cover today. It doesn't matter. For the perhaps for the last maybe five or six years at least I've been using the phrase it doesn't matter. But but I didn't consciously go out there and say it doesn't matter. I noticed that I was saying it with people that I was having a consultation with. People that are struggling in their lives, people that are stuck, people that go around the same cycle of life, really, those ones that can't get off the hamster wheel, the people that have lack in their life but they don't know why they've got lack in their life, but really all the time they're regurgitating the past. And when you regurgitate the past, because the past isn't doesn't belong in the present, it belongs in the past. It's shaped you to a certain degree, but if you keep the things that no longer serve you, and I say anything from the past now, because I've released so much over the years, right from being in the womb, that I know it doesn't matter, it's just you, you as the human, you man, holding on to or going over and over the same old story. Do you want to keep reading the same old book? Because I know I don't. Sometimes I watch the same movie over and over again, but they're usually uplifting movies, not the kind of movie that says, look at this that happened to you, you're still crying about it, why aren't you doing something? So I'm saying it doesn't matter. So if you really, really sit there and listen, it doesn't matter. Even if it's a tragedy in your life, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter in the great scheme of you moving forward. It did matter to you, the human, when you was going through it. But now it shouldn't matter because it's been done, you've gone through it, it's in the past. If you haven't gone through it, then you're still reliving it, so therefore it doesn't matter. It's just you've planted it so strongly, and you keep repeating the same old thing in your subconscious that you think it does matter. It doesn't matter. So my challenge for you, if you like, is to say it doesn't matter. When you start thinking about something from the past, tell yourself it doesn't matter. Drive your car and make up a song called It Doesn't Matter and bring in all the times that you still think about and say it doesn't matter. It mattered at the time to the person, you're not that person, and it's not that time, so it doesn't matter. People that live in the past of losing loved ones, and I do talk about losing loved ones quite a lot because a lot of my time I talk to people who have lost loved ones and excuse me, coffin, and I have to say it doesn't matter to them as well. Some of them kind of drop their jaw and think, what it doesn't matter that my mum passed over. I'm saying no, it does it did matter to you at the time that your mum passed over. Now it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter because it's not in the present moment, but you can still have the memory of your mum, but not a memory of her passing that stops you moving forward, because that doesn't matter. In the great scheme of your life, it doesn't matter, and if you're sitting there saying, Yes, it does, yes, it does, I'm never gonna let go of that, then you're never ever going to move forward. You have to keep moving forward in your life. If you are asking for that, now some people, and I don't know how serious they are when they say this, this they'll say, Well, I'm happy with my life the way it is. Then fair enough, you're happy. But you know, if you're not, if you keep wondering, is there more for me? Why am I stuck in this? Why can't I move on from this? What's holding me here? Why have I got lack in my life? It's because you need to start, it doesn't mattering. So, as from today, right now, this minute, whatever thought is coming into your mind, whilst I've been talking here, you need to say it doesn't matter. That thought, it doesn't matter, that thing, it doesn't matter. Why aren't people getting abundance? Because they're holding on to the lack of abundance. The lack of abundance doesn't matter. It's the lack of anything doesn't matter. So that is my challenge to you and to me. If I get something coming up, I don't get much now. If I get something coming up, I'm gonna say it doesn't matter, and I do say this and I have done for a long time. So I'm not trying, I'm not asking you to do something that I haven't done and tested, so it doesn't matter. And when you're going through the mire, the shite, you just need to say, it doesn't matter, I'll come out the other side. You just have to say that. When you say that, it gives you a flow, it helps you to flow through. If you don't see it, you're stuck in a dam. So just think on when something happens, it doesn't matter. Doesn't mean you don't feel it, it doesn't mean you don't love people, it doesn't mean you're not kind, just means that it doesn't matter, and it's not going to affect my life moving forward. Say it fast, say it quickly, shout it, dance it, sing it, say it. It doesn't matter. So that is it doesn't matter. That's what I've got for this podcast today. But I also wanted to bring in a gentleman, that's a spirit gentleman that's been hovering around me for a couple of days, and he said, he told me he's coming on the podcast, so he is, he's here. So I'm gonna speak from this gentleman. I don't know who of you he belongs to. I don't know if the message is going to be for a few people, but whatever you can take from his words, please take them. But it is a gentleman that passed over. Now he's showing me fat belly, thin belly, fat belly, thin belly, or should I say big belly, small belly, is indicating that he's lost weight or he did lose weight before he passed over. I'm more to the point. He's showing me that he should he's going, he's putting his hand towards his groin area, so he would have had a problem down there that preceded his passing, he's telling me. He's also showing me kidney, he would have had a bit of something going on there too, and then he's saying liver with a capital L. He's also making me mindful of times that he was fit and healthy, and he used to like to go out, he used to like walking. I can see hills. I don't know if he hill walked or if he was just showing me the hills as in at nice scenery. He did like to stop for an ice cream here and there, and I feel that it would have bought you a few ice creams in your life. He's showing me Lake Windermere in the Lake District, and he's also showing little different hotels, BBs, that kind of thing, either relating to him or you. There would be somebody that knit, but I can see somebody knitting with big pins and thick wool. They like it to grow quickly. So, whatever you can knit with big pins and thick wool, he's saying he's giving the thumbs up actually. He's saying that you've got charisma, and I feel that he would have had charisma as well. Not egotistical, he just got this air about him, and that to me is his aura shining bright and his soul. He had a beautiful soul. Oh, excuse me, he had a beautiful soul and he was very, very connected. I want to say to the universe, I don't know that he was a psychic medium as such, but I feel he got an amazing intuition and connection to the universe. He didn't use all his skills, he's telling me. He's saying he did hide behind, he did what he needed to do and he didn't do any more. But he wants you to do more than what you think you need to do. He's showing David, I just got that name coming in strong, and Simon and John. Those names are connecting to him or you. Philosophical, he's saying that he became quite philosophical. He does show me that he's showing me different philosophers as well, like you know, the old ones that have passed out being passed over for years. Excuse me, sorry. I feel that he would have liked to have read books like the Carl Jung, and he may way before him as well. Uh he would have liked to read books on the old. He's saying if you look, the old patterns are being repeated, nothing really changes his saying. And he's saying nothing really changes in anyone's life, it just gets a little bit more advanced. We're all born and we all go back home, he's saying, because he is thinking of that side of life as home, and he feels very safe. He's showing me a picnic table he would have used, somebody would have let balloons off recently. Though I think that was a funeral because I can see doves as well. But I feel the doves go to the funeral. He's also showing he was going on to the Spanish mountains. I can see he liked looking at mountains, he liked the hills and the I want to say countryside, but landscape's probably a better word. Ears as well. There's a problem with ears, right? Inside here, someone has got a build-up of wax, he's saying, but also there would be a problem with an earring, or someone's allowed their earring hole to close up. He would have had a sense of humour, and he's saying that he was quite placid, but you knew when you'd crossed him, or somebody would know when they've crossed him. Uh he takes his glasses on and off, he needed them and he didn't need them. He's also showing his big toe. Oh no, somebody stubbed their big toe, he's saying I feel that's to to somebody listening. This you've just stubbed your big toe, or you did yesterday. This is what else is he showing? Uh, somebody looking at the periodic table. I can see all the numbers and that letters for the different elements. He's showing that. So somebody either studying it or or yeah, I don't think it was him as such. I think it was someone else studying it. He's showing that. Somebody liking to wear a cap, but he's saying it's going to rub the hair off. He's having a little smile. He I don't think he went bold. I think he still had some hair on the top of his head because he's rubbing the top of his head, and it's like he's saying, I didn't wear a hat, look, and I've got hair. He's bringing in oh breakfast cereal. He's saying be careful of the sugar in the breakfast cereal. He would have liked porridge, I feel, made with proper oats. As my voice was getting croaky then, that didn't feel like my voice. It felt like he was telling me that someone's voice was like that or that they had a problem around that area. He's giving me the C-word C-A-N-C-E-R, connecting to that. He's also bringing, oh Mary Poppins is showing me Mary Poppins and Sound of Music and those like feel-good kind of movies that, well, yeah, movies that we used to watch when we was when we were younger, he's saying. So probably in the 60s and 70s, maybe. I think that goes back to so he's just saying you can't beat the old ones. The old ones are the best, he's saying. Not everyone would agree with that now, looking at technology and how it's incorporated into movies. He's saying they are spectacular. And in a way, I wished he was here to see that, to experience it firsthand. However, he can experience it from the other side. He's showing lots of love. He's gonna start to fade now. I can feel it. He gives me a suede jacket and he's also giving me a flask. Somebody filling the flask and taking it out with them. Yeah, that's what he's saying. So he's bringing you lots and lots of love from that place. So take from that what you can, whoever's listening, whatever resonates with you. You don't have to know it all, and some of it might be for the future. So, like I said, he's been with me for a few days hanging around. I thought he was coming in for someone that I was going to be doing a private reading for, but he never came in for that. He just went away and then came back again. So feel his love, take his love, and feel all the blessings. And the next time I speak to you, Christmas is going to be over. So have the most wonderful seasonal holidays. I say happy Christmas, and whatever you say, I'm reflecting that back to you. And I'll see you after the festivities. Enjoy your time. Whatever you're doing will be special to you. And don't forget, Soul Take Soul on Facebook is the group that is going to be manifesting everything in the future.